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Aha! Moments
So many people with whom I work do not know the Why of how they feel or how they behave. They do not know the Why of how other people...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Apr 16, 20212 min read
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Therapy Apps!
Cell phones are often a hot topic in my weekly conversations- teens use them to stay connected and grown-ups use them to stay afloat. It...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Apr 7, 20212 min read
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A New Year
It's a new year and I am hopeful about what it will bring us. I am a big fan of resolutions and the powerful intentions of People Who Are...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jan 5, 20211 min read
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Girls Becoming Women
There is a face that we Mothers paint on our girl children (we don't paint our boys the same way). We start the painting early and, if we...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Dec 7, 20202 min read
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Emotional Incest
Okay... so this seems like a yucky title. The idea of incest is appalling to most people and so the idea of emotional incest is equally...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Oct 19, 20202 min read
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I'm a Working Mother
I am mom to two amazing elementary-aged boys who are distance-learning and, recently, participating in a few extra curricular activities....
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Oct 13, 20203 min read
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Pandemic Loop
This is a short film made by a brilliant teen in Canada, Liv McNeil. She has called it Numb. I was called to watch it by a Huffington...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jul 23, 20202 min read
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Dear Parents of Distance Learner Who Checks Out,
I see you. You spent last Spring fighting. Pleading. Begging. You've bought hundreds of dollars of electronic equipment, furniture and...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jul 9, 20203 min read
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My June
It has been a long, long time since I have sat down to add to this blog. And, I am thinking, my absence kinda parallels what we have all...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jun 30, 20202 min read
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Racism and Protests
I thought writing a blog about George Floyd and racism and protests and our children would be easy. There is so much to say. So many...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jun 2, 20202 min read
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Virtual Camps!
Virtual Camp. Ugh. I can hear the collective groan now. Summer camps are supposed to be running and jumping and field trips to the nearby...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
May 22, 20202 min read
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Grief
We are grieving. Individually and collectively- as families, as cities and as a country. There is this idea that grief is a feeling that...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
May 20, 20202 min read
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Summer Is Coming
I have good news and bad news for you: summer is almost here and your kids' distance-learning school year is almost at an end. This...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
May 14, 20203 min read
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Distance Learning without Losing Your Mind
It was recently announced that we are doing this distance learning thing until the end of the school year. I think some teachers may have...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Apr 20, 20205 min read
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Tele-therapy!
It's been a month since my last blog entry and a lot has happened. Covid-19 has necessitated some pretty significant social distancing,...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Apr 14, 20202 min read
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Kids and COVID-19
COVID-19 is a Coronavirus (there are several types of Coronavirus) that is currently spreading across the world. According to the World...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Mar 12, 20203 min read
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Sleep and Snacks
We all know, when our kids are very little, that maintaining naps and keeping a snack station in our diaper bag is critical to our kids'...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Mar 2, 20203 min read
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My Kid Doesn't Want Therapy
This has been a subject for discussion for me lately. The scenario goes like this: a parent calls me because their child is defiant or...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Feb 19, 20203 min read
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Play Therapy Week 2020
February 2nd through 8th is Play Therapy Week. The Association for Play Therapy (APT) is a national organization (to which I belong) that...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Feb 6, 20201 min read
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ACEs Screening in California
A huuuuuuge research study (like 17,000 participants) was conducted in the mid-nineties in California. The researchers were trying to...
Autumn Quiles, LCSW
Jan 24, 20203 min read
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